If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These might be things like your need to bluff, your inability to manage certain things, your instability, or your unwillingness to change certain opinions.

Bubber may experience discord in relationships. Although Bubber is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, Bubber often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, Bubber should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Bubber succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what kind of intimate relationship he and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Bubber sometimes finds it difficult to stabilize their life and steer a steady course. They are proud of their intellectual abilities and even tend to overestimate them in a search for recognition and admiration. Yet, at other times, they might seem to scoff at other people’s opinions. At times, they tend to be overwrought and high-strung. They might want to schedule frequent rest periods for themselves.