If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution:
– my pride and short temper
– my insatiable need for praise
– my need to dominate
– my struggle to tolerate criticism

Carson may experience discord in relationships. Although Carson is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, Carson often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Carson should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Carson succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Carson and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Carson Lueders can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although he frequently changes his opinion and doesn’t hold a grudge. He abhor conflict and is a good listener. His key to self-improvement will be learning to control his impressionability.

Carson Lueders’ personality is ruled by their mind, which uses their energy to conceive and create on the abstract plane. They are much more of an idealist than a pragmatist and do not become passionately engaged in human relationships, preferring a variety of casual contacts which demand little of them in return. As a result, it is sometimes difficult for them to remain in close emotional rapport with another person without feeling hemmed in and stifled. With their peers, their charm makes them popular, and they attract all sorts of helpful friendships. Due to the ease with which they move in society and their eloquence, they have undeniable talents for communications and teaching.