If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution:
– my insatiable appetites
– my stubbornness
– my grimness
my reluctance to change

You sometimes sense a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. Charli is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though Charli will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to Charli to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. Charli should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.