If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These include your defensive attitudes, your fear of being dispossessed, your ambivalence, your radicalism, and your over-reliance on your instincts.

Cindy Kimberly sets goals for herself that are unrealistic and difficult to follow through with. When it comes to her emotional relationships, she idealizes the person she is interested in and tries to dodge any commitment. In other areas of her life, like her professional pursuits, she rushes into things without understanding the full scope of what is required. Life can step in and prompt her to slow down and take things more slowly.