Coco experiences her inner life as a process of growth and maturation, nurtured by her involvement with others and the positive and negative encounters this generates.
Because Coco Quinn is a social being oriented toward other people, her personal interests often mingle with those of her associates or those of the group to which she belongs. She is motivated by a need to work in common with other people and to share life’s pleasures and pain. Her commitments to other people are of paramount importance to her personal development. This dependence may present difficulties with individual self-assertion and make it hard for her to make decisions alone. If she wants to achieve inner equilibrium, she must behave in such a way that her actions yield benefits to others as well as herself.
Coco demonstrates great interest in the outside world, social affairs, and anything else that contributes to the growth and development of society as a whole. Clubs, organizations, and other forms of partnership attract Coco’s attention and motivate Coco’s behavior. Coco tries to protect Coco from Coco’s subjectivity by adopting an impersonal approach to life. Devoted to the common cause, Coco’s destiny is no longer Coco’s alone. It is almost entirely controlled by the people whose cause Coco has espoused.
Coco Quinn has a dynamic, mind-oriented personality. Their attitudes in life are spontaneous and direct; usually, they enhance their personal aura. A fiery idealist, they have a tendency to approach life a bit too idealistically. They may go from disillusionment to disillusionment without ever reflecting on their ways. Once they investigate their deeper needs and the limitations imposed by reality, they can achieve true stability after much work.
Coco Quinn works harder than others to understand other people’s feelings. But this seeming lack of empathy and compassion for others simply mirrors Coco’s own difficulty in understanding her own feelings and emotional needs. Coco is not insensitive, but she is baffled by her own emotions. She sees the emotional world as a foreign terrain, perhaps fraught with hidden dangers. Becoming familiar with it would present more drawbacks than advantages. As a result, Coco may appear to be hard or aloof.
Coco might struggle to establish a rewarding relationship, as she seeks special individuals to bond with. If Coco were able to accept and understand her own emotions, she would have an easier time grappling with other people’s feelings.
Coco has a strong desire for emotional independence, and might have trouble seeing other people’s emotional needs. She might even be the first to deny that such needs are real.
As a result, Coco’s dependency on others is unconscious. Because it is seen as such a threat, it is repressed. Actually, although Coco offers conscious resistance to anyone who tries to lure her out of her emotional bubble, she is always making timid, half-conscious forays into the world of feelings, because her loneliness and fear are so unbearable.
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