If Debby Ryan really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution:
– her insatiable appetites
– her stubbornness
– her grimness
her reluctance to change

Debby Ryan may experience discord in relationships. Although Debby Ryan is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, Debby Ryan often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Debby Ryan should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Debby Ryan succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Debby Ryan and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Debby Ryan has deeply anchored emotional needs. Invariably, she tries to revive these sensations from her personal history, clinging to the security provided by the repetition of a feeling which produced a positive effect in the past. Her desire for possession (tangible or emotional) could become a problem, because she may fixate on an object which is negative or bad for her. She will do well to make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious negative conditioning which may be related to her childhood.

As a result of Debby Ryan’s great ambitions, Debby Ryan is fairly organized. Debby Ryan is able to work long and hard to achieve Debby Ryan’s goals and elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect Debby Ryan against any foreseeable obstacles. Debby Ryan is so absorbed in Debby Ryan’s business Debby Ryan does not always realize that Debby Ryan tends to be somewhat peremptory with the people around Debby Ryan and that Debby Ryan might do well to soften Debby Ryan’s tone and be more tactful at times. Debby Ryan’s friendships seem stifling and superfluous to Debby Ryan, and Debby Ryan is sometimes tormented by inner conflict when Debby Ryan is forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, work to be less dogmatic. Trust in yourself and other people and flexibility.