D’Lai seeks to make her inner wealth outwardly manifest and substantial.

D’Lai is not particularly drawn to forming attachments with others. She prefers to work and develop herself on her own, without relying on others. Being an individual, she feels that she can best contribute to the world by standing on her own two feet. This often leads to her feeling alienated from those around her, as she is not content to simply take their help and rely on them. Only through working on projects independently can she achieve her goals and ambitions.

DLai, while participating in important social causes or collective ideals, tends to keep their individual identity intact. For this reason, although they may become personally involved in social affairs, they are likely to resist any project they will not be able to lead themselves, according to their own individual direction. They tend to identify themselves with an activity with social implications and attempt to know themselves through this activity.

D’Lai is ambitious and has a natural tendency to better herself socially and intellectually. Her ideas and aspirations are grandiose, and she will be eager to share them with others. Although she is kind-hearted, she enjoys being in control of situations. She derives great fulfillment from the role of the protector and will surround herself with people who need her. She is eager to obtain recognition and honor, but extremely fearful of disgrace. Her visions derive from her ambitions, often aglow with idealism. However, they may be somewhat unrealistic and impractical. Social recognition and esteem are essential to her, and she will demonstrate an amazing ability to achieve the high goals she sets for herself.

D’Lai lives her life mainly on the physical level; her behavior and attitudes toward life are the product of her need for stability. However, this may take a toll on her emotional and spiritual faculties, and her optimism and faith in life may suffer. Endowed with great pragmatism and considerable strength of will, her life will easily stabilize. Because of her stolid personality, she takes few risks, rarely tend to visualize the future, and do not readily seek out other people.

Although you may not necessarily notice the fact about yourself because you are so deeply engaged in actions, feelings, or material concerns, you sometimes lack sound judgment. This impairment arises from a difficulty in obtaining perspective on yourself and your life. You may be puzzled by your troubled relations with others. You must make an effort to detach yourself from your personal reaction and observe it from an objective, more distant standpoint. If not, you are likely to find yourself under stress or pressure because you did not give enough prior thought to tactics and strategy. You may also experience dissatisfaction in your intimate relationships because you might struggle to get in sync with others. You give little time or respect to anyone you see as too “intellectual,” because you resist adapting to new ideas and viewpoints. In fact, an idea that rubs you the wrong way mentally and/or emotionally may elicit an explosive reaction. Self-analysis can be challenging for you and you tend to refuse to develop a solid, permanent idea of yourself – and this often leads to confusion.