If Dylan O’Brien really wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution:
-his perfectionism
– his tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae
– his over intellectualization
– his comfort with a constant state of worry

Dylan O’Brien may experience discord in relationships. Although Dylan O’Brien is friendly and outgoing and commits Dylan O’Brien to friendships and partnerships, Dylan O’Brien often finds it difficult to balance Dylan O’Brien’s own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Dylan O’Brien should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Dylan O’Brien succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Dylan O’Brien and Dylan O’Brien’s partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

To trust Dylan O’Brien better and gain self-assurance, the first thing Dylan O’Brien must do is learn to say no. Once Dylan O’Brien is capable of saying no to others, Dylan O’Brien can say yes to life. Dylan O’Brien must develop Dylan O’Brien’s awareness of all the things Dylan O’Brien loves and feel positive about, as well as all the changes Dylan O’Brien hopes to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support Dylan O’Brien, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of Dylan O’Brien’s personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when Dylan O’Brien was helpless may be obstacles to Dylan O’Brien’s evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent Dylan O’Brien from daring to confront challenges Dylan O’Brien would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons Dylan O’Brien yields to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to Dylan O’Brien that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of Dylan O’Brien’s identity. However, the more often Dylan O’Brien reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware Dylan O’Brien become of Dylan O’Brien’s true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced Dylan O’Brien’s pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for Dylan O’Brien to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside Dylan O’Brien that claims Dylan O’Brien doesn’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of Dylan O’Brien could undermine Dylan O’Brien’s vitality and force Dylan O’Brien to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, Dylan O’Brien limit Dylan O’Brien’s power to bring about a positive change in Dylan O’Brien or Dylan O’Brien’s life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free Dylan O’Brien, the first step is to free Dylan O’Brien from the fears which prevent Dylan O’Brien from taking full advantage of life. Dylan O’Brien can succeed if Dylan O’Brien arrange a relaxed, positive environment for Dylan O’Brien, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which Dylan O’rien can practice relaxation exercises.