If Eva Gutowski really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution:
– her pride and short temper
– her insatiable need for praise
– her need to dominate
– her struggle to tolerate criticism

Eva may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Eva should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Eva succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Eva Gutowski is rather obstinate, stubborn, and impervious to outside influences. Although Eva’s determination is an asset in bringing plans and projects to completion, it may also arouse bitter hostility against Eva. To fit in best, Eva should consider working on Eva’s flexibility and diplomacy.