If Finn Wolfhard really wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution:
– his coolness and distance
– his lack of consideration for others
– his rigidity
– his need for total control
– his fear of his emotions

Finn Wolfhard may experience discord in relationships. Although Finn Wolfhard is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, Finn Wolfhard often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Finn Wolfhard should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Finn Wolfhard succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Finn Wolfhard and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.