If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution:
– your need to bluff
– your inability to manage certain things
– your instability
– your unwillingness to change certain opinions

Sometimes Ian Somerhalder senses a conflict between his desire for social and professional success and his need for a stable, secure domestic life. He is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on him. Sometimes it feels as though he will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy him if he has neglected his most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to him to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if he merely sacrifices his domestic life, he is only trying to fool himself. He should accept the fact that his domestic life is the true basis and foundation of his development. All his career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Ian Somerhalder has a great deal of vitality. He is always active and on the move and cannot sit still for any length of time. He rushes to act on his impulses, enthusiastic and filled with the strength of confidence in himself and his luck. Power lures him, and he is sometimes self-focused in an innocent and childlike way. His physical and creative energy predisposes him to become a captain or leader.