If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. You should try to become more open-minded and considerate of others, loosen up and let go a bit, and learn to trust your instincts. Additionally, you should try to become more flexible and allow for change, and learn to accept responsibility for your own actions. Finally, you should work to overcome your fear of your emotions and let them guide your decisions.