If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your defensive attitudes, your fear of being dispossessed, your ambivalence, your radicalism, or your over-reliance on your instincts.

Jay Kristoff sometimes senses a conflict between his desire for social and professional success and his need for a stable, secure domestic life. He is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on him. Sometimes it feels as though he will never be able to find a balance. However, no promotion will really satisfy him if he has neglected his most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to him to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if he merely sacrifices his domestic life, he is only trying to fool himself. He should accept the fact that his domestic life is the true basis and foundation of his development. All his career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Jay Kristoff has a fairly individualistic temperament and is something of a loner. He is reluctant to commit himself to partnership. His tendency to want to be the sole authority may put a painful crimp in relationships. When he is confronted directly, his reactions may be rather extreme. However, in crisis situations which require immediate and decisive action, he comes to the forefront, with his ability to mobilize all his energy quickly and effectively.