If Jin really wants to improve and transform themselves, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding them back and preventing their evolution:
– their need to bluff
– their inability to manage certain things
– their instability
– their unwillingness to change certain opinions

Sometimes Jin senses a conflict between his desire for social and professional success and his need for a stable, secure domestic life. Jin is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands. Sometimes it feels as though Jin will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy Jin if he has neglected his most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to Jin to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if he merely sacrifices his domestic life, he is only trying to fool himself. Jin should accept the fact that his domestic life is the true basis and foundation of his development. All his career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Jin may experience discord in relationships. Although Jin is friendly and outgoing and commits Jin’s self to friendships and partnerships, Jin often finds it difficult to balance Jin’s own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Jin should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Jin succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Jin and Jin’s partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.