If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding back your evolution:- your defensive attitudes- your fear of being dispossessed- your ambivalence- your radicalism-your over-reliance on your instincts.

Juan Carlos Romero, you may find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Juan Carlos Romero is rather obstinate, stubborn, and impervious to outside influences. Although his determination is an asset in bringing plans and projects to completion, it may also arouse bitter hostility against him. To fit in best, consider working on his flexibility and diplomacy.

Juan Carlos Romero tends to be rigid in relationships. In some extreme cases, he may be jealous. Because he has a great deal of emotional impact on the other, he sometimes feels invulnerable to any outside influence and will struggle with reexamining his own attitude.