If Klay Thompson really wants to improve and transform himself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding him back and preventing his evolution:
– his excessive independence
– his fear of commitment
– his eccentricity
– his instability
– his fear of intimacy

Klay Thompson has fairly single-minded and obstinate desires. They display a remarkable persistence in the pursuit of their commitments, despite any obstacles they may encounter. They are highly charged with sensuality and sexuality, and they have a great deal of influence on their behavior. Their expression in this area is sometimes fraught with problems because they have a tendency to try too hard to control their lustful urges. However, an emotional crisis intervening at around age 40 may bring about a total redefinition of their relationship to their sexuality.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first thing Klay Thompson must do is learn to say no. Once Klay Thompson is capable of saying no to others, they can say yes to life. Klay Thompson must develop their awareness of all the things they love and feel positive about, as well as all the changes they hope to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support Klay Thompson, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of their personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when Klay Thompson was helpless may be obstacles to their evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent Klay Thompson from daring to confront challenges they would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons Klay Thompson yield to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to Klay Thompson that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of their identity. However, the more often Klay Thompson reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware Klay Thompson become of their true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced Klay Thompson’s pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for Klay Thompson to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside them that claims they don’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of Klay Thompson could undermine their vitality and force them to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, Klay Thompson limit their power to bring about a positive change in themselves or their life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free Klay Thompson, the first step is to free them from the fears which prevent them from taking full advantage of life. Klay Thompson can succeed if they arrange a relaxed, positive environment for themselves, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which they can practice relaxation exercises.