If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution: your perfectionism, your tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae, your over intellectualization, your comfort with a constant state of worry.

Mimi has a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Mimi has a fairly individualistic temperament and is something of a loner. She is reluctant to commit herself to partnership. Her tendency to want to be the sole authority may put a painful crimp in relationships. When she is confronted directly, her reactions may be rather extreme. However, in crisis situations which require immediate and decisive action, she comes to the forefront, with her ability to mobilize all her energy quickly and effectively.