If Nicole Laeno really wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution:
– her need to bluff
– her inability to manage certain things
– her instability
– her unwillingness to change certain opinions

Sometimes Nicole Laeno senses a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to Nicole to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Nicole Laeno may experience discord in relationships. Although Nicole Laeno is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, Nicole Laeno often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs.

To understand and overcome this problem, Nicole Laeno should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If Nicole Laeno succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship Nicole Laeno and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Nicole Laeno is fairly organized as a result of her great ambitions. She is able to work long and hard to achieve her goals and elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect herself against any foreseeable obstacles. She is so absorbed in her business she does not always realize that she tends to be somewhat peremptory with the people around her and that she might do well to soften her tone and be more tactful at times. Her friendships seem stifling and superfluous to her, and she is sometimes tormented by inner conflict when she is forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, she should work to be less dogmatic. Trust in herself and other people and flexibility.