What does RM’s psychology tell us about them?

Consciousness and The Ideal of Self:

RM seems passive and more or less resigned to his fate, including his insecurity. Actually, RM is fairly introverted and withdrawn, trying to make sense out of his inner confusion and fathom his inner depths.

RM has a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding their identity. Perhaps their father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during their childhood, which deprived them of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because they might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, they were forced to protect themselves against negative influences and find their own system in order to grow and feel secure.

Although this system was quite useful to them as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with their evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber their mind or inhibit their developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for them to assert themselves, and they tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because their authoritarian urges are mainly directed at themselves rather than others, they sometimes feel guilty about their behavior. They judge themselves severely, and sometimes punishes themselves by setting difficult tasks for themselves. Gradually, they should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

RM’s personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling RM’s psyche. Because RM’s sensitivity is in conflict with RM’s determination, RM’s attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, RM has the feeling RM has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging RM’s yearnings and fulfilling RM’s ambitions. RM’s unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of RM’s conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage RM’s plans. In RM’s relationships, the images RM builds up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on RM’s nerves. RM finds it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.

RM has great strength of character. RM’s courage and endurance enable RM to accomplish even extremely arduous tasks. Although RM sometimes behaves impulsively, RM generally knows how to plan out an effective strategy, and, as a result, RM reaches RM’s goals without meeting any major obstacles. RM’s forcefulness gives RM certain leadership skills, which RM may implement to creative and constructive ends.

RM enjoys sharing and has a constant need for contact with other people. RM tends to be free and uninhibited in relations with other people, rarely allowing RMself to be influenced by convention or prevailing opinion; RM associates with whomever RM pleases. This attitude makes RM’s life refreshing and exciting, and RM is never bored. In career terms, RM is quite gifted for any field related to communication, where RM’s intellectual singularity and lively wit would make RM an amazing hit. RM would also be likely to succeed in any activity where the work required a multidisciplinary approach: teaching, advertising, politics, etc.

RM has a profound and fertile inner life and a prolific imagination, but their energy resources are not always sufficient to follow through on and accomplish their multitude of dreams. They tend to live in osmosis with their environment, and effort and action take a heavy toll on them. Usually, they understand phenomena and events intuitively, without really making any effort; so they are not in the habit of disciplining or shaping their thought processes. Like their thoughts, their personality is rather amorphous and disorganized. As a result of this lack of structure, they may have some trouble asserting their individuality and making some personal contribution to society through their career. Their tendency to shut out reality and dream impossible dreams, like their refusal of responsibility and duty, may be a source of some difficulty for them.

Adaptation and Sensitivity:

Physical and mental freedom are vital to RM. RM’s youth and home may have been of the rootless, wandering type, which could have given them a taste for movement and independence. RM needs to be aware that their life has a purpose and hunt for it in various belief systems, both traditional and new age. In fact, RM has an unmistakable gift for philosophy. The faraway appeals to them, and travel is likely to be an important aspect of their life.

RM has a sensitive personality. RM may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. RM is subject to cyclical energy flows and go from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in RM’s behavior may be explained by emotional problems RM may have experienced in infancy: RM’s mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.

Love and Sensuality:

RM’s attractions are usually immediate and intense. They rise quickly to fever pitch. The story of these passions is often dramatic to excess, combining all the plot elements of a classic love tragedy: jealousy, possessiveness, agony as an erotic stimulant, etc.

RM’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of RM’s emotional urges and somewhat wary of RM’s feelings, RM tries to rid RM’s self of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Relatively unstable, especially in RM’s love life, RM may display chronic indecision. RM’s bonds could easily shatter, or present RM with problems of adaptation and understanding. RM must honor RM’s taste for liberty. If RM feels stifled, RM may break off a relationship or run away from it.

For RM, a love affair must involve the emotions as well as sexuality. RM has a good chance of achieving his goal, as neither pride or ambition will cloud his romantic judgment. His relationship will play a major role in his destiny, and he will devote himself body and soul to his partner and, if he chooses to have them, his children.

RM may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive RM to seek pleasure. RM’s need for romantic fulfillment may compel RM to marry, because RM also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that RM had indeed achieved success. However, privately, RM might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.

Cautious and reserved, RM is sometimes unwilling to open RMself to others if RM is not sure of being accepted. RM will always hang back somewhat from RM emotional urges, parceling out RM expressions of affection, because RM has learned – sometimes at RM expense – that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For RM, “good fences make good neighbors,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, even when RM is in love, RM remains fairly circumspect. When RM finds RMself attracted to a partner, RM privately engages in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly, to see whether RM are likely to be able to share RM life and future with them. As a result of RM sensitivity, RM has a profound affinity for all of the arts. Music, literature, painting, and graphic arts are likely to enrich RM existence and make it pleasant. RM could progress in any career in which balance, order, and practicality predominate.

Mental and Intellect:

RM’s mental aptitudes make RM especially good at comparing, evaluating, and weighing information. This intellectual modus operandi has enabled RM to develop an innate sense of values, both artistic and ethical, as well as a remarkable ability to relate to other people. RM’s appreciative, conciliatory attitude makes RM a skillful diplomat able to untangle conflict situations deftly and with ease. In other situations, RM’s artistic spirit is sensitive to a wide variety of harmonies.

RM tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. RM’s thoughts are usually structured, and RM’s reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.

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