Selena’s psyche follows an extroverted thrust. She attempts to embody and actualize her ideas and the archetypes she identifies with in her objective life.

Because Selena is a social being oriented toward other people, her personal interests often mingle with those of her associates or those of the group to which she belongs. She is motivated by a need to work in common with other people and to share life’s pleasures and pain. Her commitments to other people are of paramount importance to her personal development. This dependence may present difficulties with individual self-assertion and make it hard for her to make decisions alone. If she wants to achieve inner equilibrium, she must behave in such a way that her actions yield benefits to others as well as herself.

Selena Gomez demonstrates great interest in the outside world, social affairs, and anything else that contributes to the growth and development of society as a whole. Clubs, organizations, and other forms of partnership attract Selena’s attention and motivate Selena’s behavior. Selena tries to protect herself from her subjectivity by adopting an impersonal approach to life. Devoted to the common cause, Selena’s destiny is no longer Selena’s alone. It is almost entirely controlled by the people whose cause Selena has espoused.

Selena Gomez is a realist. She approaches life pragmatically, and even her feelings are based on rational, tangible evidence. She bases her judgements on past experience and is prone to skepticism. A hard worker, she takes pride in her own endeavors and has a personal concept of her productivity. Her possessions help her assert herself as an individual and act as an antidote to any feelings of insecurity. As a result, material accomplishments may preoccupy her more than either love as a passion or intellectual or philosophical considerations. Nevertheless, she becomes attached to anything which offers her certainty.

Selena Gomez works harder than others to understand other people’s feelings. But this seeming lack of empathy and compassion for others simply mirrors Selena’s own difficulty in understanding her own feelings and emotional needs. Selena is not insensitive, but she is baffled by her own emotions. She sees the emotional world as a foreign terrain, perhaps fraught with hidden dangers. Becoming familiar with it would present more drawbacks than advantages. As a result, Selena may appear to be hard or aloof.

Selena might struggle to establish a rewarding relationship, as she seeks special individuals to bond with. If Selena were able to accept and understand her own emotions, she would have an easier time grappling with other people’s feelings.

Selena has a strong desire for emotional independence, and might have trouble seeing other people’s emotional needs. Selena might even be the first to deny that such needs are real.

As a result, Selena’s dependency on others is unconscious. Because it is seen as such a threat, it is repressed. Actually, although Selena offers conscious resistance to anyone who tries to lure her out of her emotional bubble, Selena is always making timid, half-conscious forays into the world of feelings, because her loneliness and fear are so unbearable.