Simon Cowell seeks to make his inner wealth outwardly manifest and substantial.

Because Simon Cowell is a social being oriented toward other people, his personal interests often mingle with those of his associates or those of the group to which he belongs. He is motivated by a need to work in common with other people and to share life’s pleasures and pain. His commitments to other people are of paramount importance to his personal development. This dependence may present difficulties with individual self-assertion and make it hard for him to make decisions alone. If he wants to achieve inner equilibrium, he must behave in such a way that his actions yield benefits to others as well as himself.

While Simon Cowell is attracted to interpersonal activities, his significant need for inner security may stand in the way of his overtures to others. Since Simon Cowell is highly receptive to other people’s inner natures, he seeks tight bonds with others. Simon Cowell unconsciously needs their psychological support in his quest for himself. Were Simon Cowell to evaluate his psychological development, he would place more value upon human warmth, intimacy, and the need to share than on intellectual understanding or personal freedom of expression.

He has a tendency to identify with others. He forms friendships easily and naturally and enjoys participating in other people’s lives. Sociable, he enjoys being seen and appreciates popularity and recognition. Solitude bores him. His life and personal relations are in sync with his friendships and outer events. Most often, he shares the opinion of others.

Thought, intuition, and inner perceptions predominate in Simon Cowell’s psyche. Open and curious, optimistic and enthusiastic, Simon Cowell is eager to participate in everything happening around him.

Simon Cowell’s affections are lively and spontaneous, but may be more intellectual than sensual. In a partner, Simon Cowell would seek a source of mutual spiritual or artistic inspiration.

Light-hearted and perhaps even fickle, Simon Cowell never allows himself to be overcome by outer realities or emotions. In its most exaggerated form, Simon Cowell’s buoyancy borders on indifference.

Simon Cowell works harder than others to understand other people’s feelings. But this seeming lack of empathy and compassion for others simply mirrors Simon Cowell’s own difficulty in understanding his own feelings and emotional needs. Simon Cowell is not insensitive, but Simon Cowell is baffled by his own emotions. Simon Cowell sees the emotional world as a foreign terrain, perhaps fraught with hidden dangers. Becoming familiar with it would present more drawbacks than advantages. As a result, Simon Cowell may appear to be hard or aloof.

Simon Cowell might struggle to establish a rewarding relationship, as Simon Cowell seeks special individuals to bond with. If Simon Cowell were able to accept and understand his own emotions, Simon Cowell would have an easier time grappling with other people’s feelings.

Simon Cowell has a strong desire for emotional independence, and might have trouble seeing other people’s emotional needs. Simon Cowell might even be the first to deny that such needs are real.

As a result, Simon Cowell’s dependency on others is unconscious. Because it is seen as such a threat, it is repressed. Actually, although Simon Cowell offers conscious resistance to anyone who tries to lure Simon Cowell out of his emotional bubble, Simon Cowell is always making timid, half-conscious forays into the world of feelings, because Simon Cowell’s loneliness and fear are so unbearable.