If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution:
– your excessive independence
– your fear of commitment
– your eccentricity
– your instability
– your fear of intimacy

Sometimes That Girl Lay Lay senses a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

That Girl Lay Lay has developed a fairly radical philosophy which challenges traditional systems of knowledge. In fact, many people shun her as an eccentric trying to spread subversive ideas. She is fairly nervous and impatient and finds it difficult to concentrate on one subject for very long. As a result, she does not always take the time to express her ideas in a practical or tangible way.

She is fascinated by novelty and is likely to find the field of communications most rewarding for the total freedom it gives to her need for expression and her innovative, revolutionary spirit. Gradually, as she learns to control her intellectual and nervous energies, she will be able to express her innovative ideas about traditional structures and lifestyles in a more effective way. Her ability to channel her energies and lead groups of followers into unexplored ideological territory will improve.