Desperately single? Not an Aquarius!
You’re an enigma, a strange combination of amiability and detachment. You’re everyone’s best friend, yet does anybody really know you? You need space—to think, to wander, to dream, and to absorb life’s sometimes hard lessons. At times that means distancing yourself emotionally and physically from others. Space gives you (and any partner) time to breathe and center yourself so that you can return as affectionate as ever, ready to forgive and forget. Take care that your alone time doesn’t lead to isolation. You can have a partner, spend quality time together, and still respect one another’s independence.
How to be in the right place at the right time, Aquarius…
You’re such a social butterfly! You’re interested in all kinds of people—oddballs, geniuses, extremists, the sweet neighbor down the street—and you can find something to talk about with all of them. But like Sheldon on The Big Bang Theory, you could spend all your time studying humans rather than really getting to know them.
To find love, you’re going to have to make an effort. You’re a joiner, so look for a club or group where you can meet like-minded computer geeks, sci-fi aficionados, or environmentalists. Maker Faires, Comic-con, and Sierra Club events are good bets!
Building up Pisces´ protective barrier…
While some Capricorns build defensive walls around their emotions, you could have the opposite problem. In your need to be needed you may have a tendency to pick the wrong companion. You could be drawn to emotionally damaged people because you feel you can care for, “mother”, or “fix” them. Mutable you can change yourself to fit whatever a partner needs, but is losing yourself the best way to find true happiness? You need a partner who is your equal, who reciprocates your love as you mutually support and protect one another. Then you’ll make your dreams come true.
How to capture the gentlest of all signs…
Romantic Pisces wants to be wooed even long after the vows! Keep your relationship strong by being kind and thoughtful. Remember birthdays, anniversaries, and significant dates. Talk, confide your dreams, and discuss difficulties. Pisces lives in a dreamy, idealistic world, so anchor your partner in reality. Remember that love is measured by what you do. Check in with calls or texts. Say “I love you”. Bring small gifts for no special reason. If you make a promise, keep it. The Fish will disappear like a trout in a rocky stream at the first hint of deception. Above all, be present.
Paving your way to love through daydreaming…
You like to daydream. Rather than a fault, you can put it to work to help you find love. Take a few hours to yourself. Get comfortable with paper and pen. Now start daydreaming. Who is your ultimate lover? What four qualities do you most want in a mate? Answer from your heart, not according to what others expect or want. Someone sensitive? Likes to laugh? Good cook? Self-confident? Research shows that writing down your goals gives you a much greater chance of success because clarifying your desires helps you commit to them. Happy hunting!
Amicable Pisces can see straight through your BS…
Witty, charming, delightful Pisces loves to laugh. They’re friendly, engaging people who can surprise you with their knowledge and amuse you with their humor. They’re also mysterious. You won’t be able to plumb the depths of this magical sign in one (or a dozen) dates, but potential partners will be enchanted enough to try and try again. Openhearted and sympathetic, they’ll listen to your woes so long as you’re positive and not whiny. And be forewarned—these intuitive beings can see right down to your soul. If you’re faking it, the Fish will know.
Magical love tricks Pisces style…
Romance with Pisces is like water to fish. You breathe it into your very being. Any date with you is enchanted because you know exactly how to turn on the charm and make it special. An attentive lover, you’re sometimes guilty of ignoring what you want. You’ve tried candlelight and flower petals, so how about something different? Pisces rules the feet. Soak one another’s in warm, scented water, and massage your piggies with fragrant lotion. Then think of imaginative ways to play footsie! Your feet—and partner—will thank you!
The dinner of your dreams, Pisces…
Put that world-famous imagination to good use when planning for your next dinner date. Cabernet and steak? Yawn. Chardonnay and salad? Been there, done that. Cool rosé wine is hot right now. And we’re not talking about Aunt Hilda’s wine spritzers! Pair an elegant Oregon white pinot noir (really a pale salmon color) with its rhubarb, cherry, and chive notes with omikase sushi. “Omikase” means that you leave the selection up to your chef, and with luck, the results will be inventive and unexpected (like you). Finish with grilled figs and honey over vanilla ice cream.
You might be looking in the wrong place, Pisces…
You’re fascinating and delightful, so why are you still looking? Your sign represents new beginnings, but you’d like to settle down with “the one.” Perhaps you’re trying too hard. Where you’re seeking a mystical connection, maybe the other person is only looking for a one-night stand! You’re greatly influenced by the currents around you, but perhaps you’re too sensitive. Your date wasn’t really trying to hurt your feelings! Maybe you leave after one strike when you should stick it out for the whole inning. Give mere mortals a chance—they don’t have your intuitive gifts!
Are Aries most likely to stray?
Aries flirts with abandon and won’t waste a moment if someone interesting appears on the scene. And by “interesting” we mean the equal of Aries in energy, excitement, and adventurousness! Shrinking violets won’t even register on the radar. Indecisive nitpicking whiners? No way!
This white-hot sign needs spice, variety, and passion, if love is to endure. If they’re lacking, they’ll just move on to the next conquest du jour. Match their intensity, appreciate their uniqueness, and lavish admiration on your Aries sweetie and you’ll have a partner for life.