Mixed signals might be keeping you from getting serious…
One of your needs as a Scorpio is to be in a nurturing, but passionate and committed, relationship. If you have been struggling to even pass stage one in your relationships, giving your prospect the wrong idea might be your problem. You’re a sign that finds it difficult to open up at first, and if you´ve been hurt in previous relationships, you might be making very difficult for someone to form a genuine bond—even though that´s actually what you really and truly want. If someone feels right, showing your vulnerable side might be scary, but it definitely can be very rewarding.
This is one risk all Capricorns should always take…
You’re very wise. You put the greater good ahead of your own, and you put in the time and effort to do everything the very best way. But you should take risks if they are almost definitely going to make you happy! Yes, your wants. Desires. The what-ifs and have-nots… you simply don’t allow yourself enough happiness, Capricorn!
So… that sweater you just love but the price tag is a little too high… would you wear it for years? Does it feel and look great? Can it be worn dressed up and down? Does it go with some items already in your wardrobe? Buy it!
That item on your bucket list that’s a bit out of character and seems kind of risky? Would you regret never checking it off if tomorrow was your last day on Earth? If so, do it—and soon!
Are you settling?
Youdon’t follow the beaten path in the rest of your life, so why do it at work? There’s a niche for your unique talents, perhaps in one of these fields.
Teacher, advisor, arbitrator, lawyer: You’re nonjudgmental, logical, and you like to help people.
Computer sciences, engineering: You love technology, the newer the better.
Indie filmmaker: You like people to follow your “script” and play the roles that you’ve assigned to them!
Private investigator, researcher: You collect facts like others collect stamps.
Avant-garde artist: Follow in the footsteps of fellow Aquarians Philip Glass, Yoko Ono, Jackson Pollock, Gertrude Stein, and Federico Fellini!
Learn to channel your most valuable quality…
If you’re trying to find the career path that truly moves you, focus on what you love. You’re a poet and a dreamer. You also have strong intuition combined with a few insecurities! That means that you know instinctively what’s right for you, but sometimes you doubt your ideas and let yourself be swayed by what others say is “right” or “best” for you. Pioneering Pisces spirits from Einstein to Galileo to Steve Jobs didn’t let outside opinions override their inner counsel. The most valuable attribute you can share with the world is your authenticity.
Are you on the brink of major burnout?
Go, go, go! Your work style is exciting, dynamic—and exhausting. You could burn out, suffer migraines, or worse if you don’t take a break. Perhaps you can’t spare the time for a real vacation but take a mini break and bring more balance to your life. Go on a technology fast. Turn off the gadgets (yes, all of them!) for a day, an hour, or just twenty minutes if that’s all you can spare. Now turn your attention to your family, a good book, or stunning view. You’ll return to work refreshed and reenergized!
The thing you need in bed with an Aries…
Sometimes Aries impulsiveness can take a date from first base to home plate without so much as a glance at the rest of the field. Rev up arousal by doing something out of character. Slow down and make out. Focus on foreplay. Savor one another. Explore and experiment with new ways to touch and please your partner. The change of pace from whirlwind to slow burn will make the sparks fly. Amp up the pleasure with patience and you won’t burn yourselves out!
Turning these struggles into strengths…
For anyone in a relationship with a Virgo, they already know that their partner is systematic and methodical. One who suddenly seems scatterbrained and ricochets from one thing to another like a bumblebee in a flower garden is not a contented companion. Similarly, one who succumbs to frequent headaches, stomachaches, or phantom ailments could be losing interest and withdrawing. You might not reach the soul-baring stage with a Virgo, but a partner who can talk about the situation logically might be able to get to the bottom of the issue.