Me, Myself, and Us, Aries?

Is an Aries happier single or in a relationship?

Single or coupled? Aries could go either way. Unlike some other signs, you’re perfectly happy alone. But once you’re in a committed relationship, you’re as generous, affectionate, and supportive as any other sign.

Things could cool if a relationship grows too routine (you know how Aries loves adventure). Yes, it’s true—day-to-day life is way less exciting than the chase. And a disengaged Aries is a self-involved Aries who could forget to include a partner at all. Anyone in a relationship with Aries needs to be strong, supportive, and ready for the ride of a lifetime!

Top Secrets About Aries

Can an Aries have it all?

Yes, indeed! There you are, smack-dab in the middle of the action. You’re so confident and self-assured that people probably don’t know that you harbor a few fears (you know it’s true). You just don’t prattle on about them self-pityingly the way some other signs do! All that pressure you put on yourself to succeed can cause some real doubts about how you’re going to do it all. And forget asking for help! Your first, and usually only, impulse is to strong-arm your way through your nerves. And you know what? It usually works!

Do You Come on Too Strong, Aries?

This Aries strength could be a love weakness…

Everyone knows that you’re passionate, and there’s nothing wrong with that. You zero in on what (or who) you want and go after it or him or her with singleness of purpose. A battering ram was an ancient siege weapon, originally a stout log, used to bash through walls. Sound familiar?

Forget immovable object, you’re like an irresistible force meeting marshmallow fluff! No one can withstand the full Aries onslaught. But romance isn’t a blunt instrument to be wielded against a foe. Ease up and enjoy the wooing process. Sweep—don’t knock—your paramour off their feet!

Aries Personality

Any Aries has a personality that’s irresistible. They have a natural charm that draws others in and begs them to try and not pay attention. Naturally the center of the action and being very outgoing, Aries has a gregarious personality that charms the pants off anyone they meet.

Due to their impulsive nature, they sometimes struggle to finish tasks, and this can make it difficult for those who work alongside them or have expectations of the partnership.

This sign can frustrate others with their impulsivity. However, they can be a delight when you’re in a pickle and need some quick help. They’re great for getting friends out of a bind. 

Aries’ personality leaves others with the impression that they have unshakable confidence and, for the most part, they would be right. But underneath it all, they’re filled with anxious energy and fear of failure.

At heart, Aries can sometimes wrestle with some shadows, but they’ll always have an optimistic and outgoing personality that shines bright.

How to Seduce an Aries

If someone is interested in seducing an Aries, they’ll need to trigger this sign’s inner warrior and bring on the challenge. To an Aries, there is nothing sexier than the object of their affection telling them no.

This sign is not a game player, per se, but they do get off on the challenge—which is why they may grow a bit listless when the challenge is gone. They’ll want someone who is bold but will always let them chase a bit.

Once an Aries’ attention is caught, their partner will need to know how to keep that attention. If this sign is not interested, they will quickly look onward to the next potential.

Another wonderful way to seduce an Aries is to appeal to their desire to have the very best. Someone who knows how to dress the part, take care of themselves (just like them), and who has a penchant for the very best will quickly catch the eye of an Aries.

Aries Worst Careers

For an Aries, the worst job imaginable would be one where they sit in the background, stay quiet, and keep their thoughts hidden. These are the not-so-great options for Aries:

Postal Worker: Whether this sign is in the back organizing mail or out on the road delivering it, this job is definitely not for an Aries. The tedium inherent within this job leaves much to be desired for this sign’s outgoing personality and loving nature.

Factory Worker: The same goes for being a factory line worker. Standing in the same spot, day after day, doing the same things over and over, would make an Aries want to jump off a bridge. This sign likes having their hands in multiple pots. So, the notion that everyone in the factory has their role to play and stays in their lane would drive this sign nuts.

Therapist: Though some would disagree, Aries would not make great therapists. Yes, they’re good at coming up with solutions and their friends always turn to them for advice. But an entire 50 minutes of listening to someone else go on and on about how they feel and what they’re going through? Nope.

Aries Career Strengths

Self-Confident: Even if it’s not their forever career, an Aries will show up to any scene like a boss. It doesn’t matter if they’re cleaning toilets, they’ll show up as the best janitor that business has ever seen.

Great Networker: Since Aries is a natural chatterbox, they’ll be excellent when it comes to engaging with clients, bosses, or other co-workers.

“I’ve Got This” Attitude: Because they aren’t afraid to try anything, this makes Aries great for tasks that others aren’t down for.

Decisive.: Aries is also great for those quick decisions needed at the last moment.

Super Fun: Aries brings the party with them wherever they go—including the office.

Ambitious: And while “fun” may be their middle name, Aries are also highly motivated—which is why those on the same career trajectory may want to watch their toes.

Determined: Besides being a natural leader, an Aries doesn’t give up.

Aries Sex

If there’s one space where Aries never fears failure, it’s in the bedroom. This sign has a sexual appetite that can never be satisfied. They tend to go after a potential bedmate like a lion would a cute deer in the field. They don’t have time for cuddling or romance and tend to just get right to the point.

This sign has a tendency to pack quite a bit into a small amount of time—making it more about quality than quantity. Some will roll with this quite nicely, while others will want a replay. This is why an Aries tends to roam from person to person until they find that special someone who has all of the many requirements needed to capture their heart.

For them, sex is not about intimacy or connecting. It’s about the act itself—the destination or end result. So long as that destination ends in… ahem, everyone getting theirs… then they’re pleased as pie.

Aries Love Language

As far as love languages go, Aries sort of needs them all. They’ll want your time, your affection, and everything in between. However, if Aries gives you a gift, they’ll expect you to appreciate it. (At least it’ll be top of the line, whatever it is.) If not, you may get one of their famous temper tantrums.

Aries is not an easy person to build a relationship with because they tend to require quite a bit from the person they’re with. Quality time is huge. This sign wants to have everyone watch them and bae fawn over one another, share each other’s meals, and hold hands walking down the street. Of course, making mouths drop when Aries starts dishing out the details of their thrilling, off-the-walls sex life.

Acts of service is another major love language. In many ways, an Aries’ commitment style is similar to a baby’s commitment to a parent. Aries isn’t exactly the tidiest of signs; this sign will leave a trail of clothing, plates, and other things around the house. And an Aries fully expects their partner to take care of those things without complaint.

Aries Love

In the beginning… Generally, Aries’ commitment style can best be summed up by “doesn’t.” This sign is known as the toddler of the zodiac, who must put everything that catches their eye in their mouth. This makes for very good lovemaking, but not so great with catching feelings.

When things are going well… Once true love happens though, an Aries can be very giving. They have a tendency to want all the solo time they can get with bae. They want to be the object of their love’s every thought and hope to be in their pocket at all times.

When things are on the rocks… This sign has an open mind and a taste for adventure, so they understanding that falling in and out of interest with someone is just the nature of life. If they’ve reached that point of climax, and had that sweet taste of conquest, they’re already looking to whatever else is shiny and new in their orbit. So, this sign struggles to stay interested once the challenge is gone.