Who calls the shots in a Cancer’s life?
Your willingness to take control makes you a natural manager. You aren’t afraid to accept responsibility for a project or team and do what needs to be done. You’re organized and dependable, but your cardinal nature will make it hard for anyone to push you into doing something you don’t want to do. And you can be as stubborn as a bull if someone tries to thwart your plans. You always appear calm and strong even if you’re a quivering ball of insecurity on the inside. Just take care not to let your fluctuating emotions rule your decision making.
Money can’t buy happiness, or this either…
Cancer seeks security the way crabs seek rocky hidey-holes, and money is one tangible manifestation of security for you. You acquire it, accumulate it, and once you have it, hold onto it tenaciously (except when it comes to loved ones).
You worry about money, too, and no amount ever seems to be enough to make you feel entirely safe from the dangers lurking out there. You want to be paid what you know you’re worth and will move on to another job if necessary. Take care that your prudence with money doesn’t turn into miserliness.
Are your maternal instincts putting people off?
You’re well suited to be the boss, so long as you don’t become too bossy. You’re very competent, and you feel you know the best way to do things. Hence, you want people to do exactly what you say. But that doesn’t always go over so well.
To succeed with co-workers, try to leave the parental behavior at home. Stifle any tendency to be controlling and put some of that stellar nurturing behavior to work instead. Delegate tasks and trust that the work will be done right. You can keep a watchful eye on everyone, so they’re focused on the end goal without lapsing into micromanagement!
Cancers are natural award-winners—enjoy it!
Everyone knows that Cancer is a sensitive sign, sometimes overly so. You might seem mild mannered and unassuming to others, but you will defend loved ones and comrades to the bitter end.
It might surprise some people to know that you often feel vulnerable and inadequate, what with all your outward confidence. It’s probably hard for you to accept well-deserved praise or recognition, since inside you feel a bit like a fraud. Take a lesson from Leo and learn to bask in the spotlight. Be gracious about compliments and awards, you deserve them!
One of your best traits can get you ahead at work…
Some experts rank emotional intelligence as one of the most important qualities in a career—as important as intellectual ability or technical skill. EI encompasses initiative, empathy, and persuasiveness. It can help make the difference between a leader and a loser.
And who has EI by the truckload? Cancers! You’re intuitive and respectful. You’re sure of what you want and will stop at nothing to get it. You can’t learn EI from books, it develops by interacting with people, something Cancer does well. Put your emotional intelligence to work in order to excel in the workplace.
This unique star didn’t let her critics hold her back!
Actress and director Angelica Huston is her family’s third generation to win an Oscar. In her 20s, she posed for photographer Richard Avedon, modeled for Halston, and had her hair styled by Vidal Sassoon.
But her life hasn’t always been a walk in the park. Modeling agency executive Eileen Ford suggested she get a nose job. Avedon said her shoulders were too wide. And a theater critic said she had the “face of a gnu”!
But this tough-shelled Cancer turned negatives into plusses, working in over 70 movies and TV programs. “I knew I didn’t have the easiest face in the world,” she admits. “I was able to take advantage of a time when unusual became something to be coveted.”
One of country’s hottest stars is a loveable family man…
Award-winning country singer Luke Bryan doesn’t let the adoration of thousands of screaming fans go to his head. “If I’m up there not taking myself too seriously and letting the girls watch me shake it a little bit,” he says, “that’s what makes the night fun.”
What really turns this Cancer celeb on is his wife, college sweetheart Caroline. How does he stay grounded? “The important thing is that we try to communicate as much as we can,” he says. “If we have a little hiccup with one another, we talk it out, figure it out, close the book on it, and move on down the road.” That’s good advice from this Crab!
This Cancer may be the best of her generation…
Meryl Streep isn’t known for one role, or even a select few. This American actress is often referred to as the best of her generation given her extensive success across a variety of film genres. She’s known for her versatility, earning her 3 Academy Awards with a record 21 nominations, among dozens of other accolades.
This Cancer has used her platform as a Hollywood star to bring about change, too. She has collaborated on the Time’s Up initiative, campaigned the Equal Rights Amendment to all members of Congress, and founded Writers Lab for women over forty seeking to develop their screenwriting. Catch her in three new films this year, or in her recent performances—Little Women or Big Little Lies!
Are your character contradictions a big turn-off?
You are full of contradictions, as evidenced by your symbol, Crab. All the tough-as-nails armor and impressive weaponry on the outside hide a gentle and tender emotional being. By the same token, your inner focus is counterbalanced by an enterprising spirit. You crave comfort and security yet harbor no small amount of ambition.
Sometimes you can be paralyzed by fear, doubt, and worry, which keep you from moving forward. Your challenge is to listen to your instincts and face your fears head-on. Take the initiative in whatever you want to accomplish!
You want commitment, but you’ll never get there if…
Cancer can tend to another’s needs like nobody else. You have nurturing down to a science. You prefer to control the strings and are happiest when a partner just goes with the (your) flow. Stop and try to be objective. Are those claws pinching your friend just a little too tightly? Is he or she gasping for more breathing room?
If you have a tendency to expect disappointment, you know what they say about self-fulfilling prophecies. Ease up just a bit and believe in the process. And don’t bring up wedding dates or anything too radical just yet, you may need to let other people catch up to your train!