Cancer loves to be in love, but these zodiac signs probably won’t lead to a fairytale romance.
Aries: Fiery Aries is emotional, too, but in a totally different way than Cancer. And since both are cardinal signs, they butt heads on a lot of things, as they both want to lead instead of follow.
Gemini: Air sign Gemini is a thinker and Cancer is a feeler. Right away these two have basic differences that are hard to ignore. Gemini can be pretty quick with flippant and sarcastic comments, which leads to frequently hurt feelings for Cancer. When the Crab is hurt, he or she can lash out emotionally and become quite moody, which Gemini doesn’t understand (or chooses to flat-out ignore).
Aquarius: The Water Bearer spends a lot of time thinking about things from a logical point of view, which is the opposite of the Crab’s emotional take. There is a lot of initial awkwardness that results when these two first meet, and they might easily disregard having a relationship with each other just because of that.
Cancer is in love with love, and wants a serious relationship. Not a fling. The following are the Crab’s best matches.
Cancer: Cancer is looking for true love and a solid intimate connection, so when this pair meets one another, it naturally seems like a match made in heaven. Two Cancers fulfill each other’s emotional longings and it’s no surprise they’re ready to commit to each other right away.
Scorpio: When Cancer partners with their fellow water sign Scorpio, it’s a love match for sure. Both of these zodiac signs play for keeps. They have a deep, rich emotional life that they want to share with the person they’re in a relationship with. Scorpio has the trustworthiness that Cancer is looking for, and vice versa. This can be a richly rewarding experience shared between these two deeply emotional water signs.
Pisces: These two can dream together, create art, and imagine that the world is a far better place than it actually is. They both live in an idealized world, are good at shutting the rest of the world out, and living inside their own little love cocoon. Trustworthiness and loyalty are the main focus here. As long as they maintain a strong sense of this between them, the relationship can be emotionally satisfying and deeply fulfilling.
In the beginning… When dating, Crabs have a reputation for getting too close, too fast. They can be clingy way before the relationship has ever been made “official.” This, no surprise, can be a big turnoff for some people. This is actually an advantage to dating a Cancer, however, because they lay all their cards on the table early. If you don’t think you can live up to their high expectations, you have the chance to exit early.
When things are going well… One of the most loyal signs, Cancers are definitely in love with being in love. They are at their happiest and most content when they’re finally in a solid, long-term relationship. They give their loyalty, they expect it in return. One of the least likely signs to cheat or have an affair, they take commitment very seriously and expect their partner to do the same.
When things are on the rock… If you’re in a relationship with a Crab and you do something to hurt them, their loyalty and commitment levels probably won’t wane. What can you expect? Easy: the cold shoulder, emotional outburst, yelling, or all of the above. While Cancers rarely retaliate for their partner’s infidelity, they have a hard time forgetting any act of betrayal.
Cancers have a lot of great qualities, but here are some traits that keep them from being perfect.
Moody: If you are a Cancer or know one, it’s not a shocker that moodiness is first up on this list. With the moon as the Crab’s ruling planet, they’re highly influenced by the fluctuating tides. In a way, a Cancer’s moodiness really isn’t his or her fault. Or at least this zodiac sign would love for you to believe that!
Insecure: With Cancer, insecurity is at the root of a lot of their apparent weaknesses, including possessiveness, jealousy, clinginess, and even vanity (a classic sign of overcompensation from someone’s who’s insecure). Cancer has a constant need for reassurance.
Rigid: While Cancers try hard (and succeed) at being sympathetic and understanding most of the time, they do have a rigid, judgmental side. Crabs can grab hold of a thought or an opinion and stick with it just like a security blanket.
Randomly Uncommunicative: On a good day, a Cancer will sit next you and chat about everything under the sun. On a bad day, getting a Cancer to utter even a few words to you is like pulling teeth.
Pessimistic: When Cancers spend too much time in their own head, their thoughts can turn dark. Luckily, they can usually overcome their pessimism by spending time focusing on their blessings, but that doesn’t stop their minds from wandering to the dark side occasionally.
Ruled by the emotional moon, it’s easy to see why Cancer’s moods fluctuate so often. As the moon is affected by the constantly shifting tides, so are Cancers. The moon is a fast-moving body, only spending a couple days in each sign of the zodiac, and Cancer’s moods are affected by each change more than any other signs are.
Being ruled by the moon also means there is a strong connection between Cancer and the water. Cancers feel an extremely strong emotional tie to ponds, streams, lakes, rivers, and especially the ocean. The beach is one of their favorite getaways, and they could spend hours doing nothing as long as they’re near the water. Hearing the crashing waves is almost spiritual for most Crabs, and they do their best thinking, meditating, and praying by the water.
Cancer rules the fourth house of the home and roots. If you look at the zodiac wheel, you’ll notice that Cancer’s fourth house sits at the bottom, literally acting as the anchor and foundation of the entire circle. Cancers feel a very strong connection to family and home, and truly believe that home is where the heart is. Because of that, Cancers are extremely interested in their ancestors and often do extensive research into genealogy.
The fourth house also rules privacy, security, and the overall concept of being safe. This can mean in both an emotional and physical sense. It’s very important for Cancers to have that safe feeling in all areas of their life. Because they are introverted and have a tough outer shell, if a Cancer lets someone into their sacred space (especially their home), it will be almost impossible for them to forgive anyone who breaks their trust and violates their peaceful house in any way.
Numerology and astrology are closely connected (via astronomy), and each planetary body is linked with a number between one and nine. Cancer is ruled by the moon, which has been assigned the number 2 in numerology.
According to numerology, the number two is considered the most feminine of all numbers, and is associated with someone who is gentle, considerate, and has a very sensitive vibration. Sound familiar? Other positive keywords to describe two people are warm, peaceful, tactful, and understanding.
Twos are capable of gentleness and prefer to avoid conflict at all costs, but their inner strength isn’t something to be ignored. There is much more to a two than meets the eye, and if given the opportunity they prove this again and again. Twos often go unnoticed because they prefer to operate in the shadows. Eventually they will come out of hiding and show their superior intelligence, and willingness to do battle whenever their competence is called into question.
Cancer is a water sign, and therefore ruled by their emotions and feelings. When you look at their personality, Cancer natives mimic the ups and downs of the tides and waves. Cancer is very much like a body of water: You can never fully predict what’s under the surface, but you are undoubtedly moved and captivated by its unpredictable power and beauty.
Cancer is the zodiac sign most known for being tough as nails on the outside, but soft and mushy on the inside. The Chariot, the seventh tarot card in the Major Arcana, can completely identify with Cancer’s fierce-but-mothering dual nature—and we can see that in the card’s imagery.
Traditionally, the warrior is found standing in front of a bed of water behind him. This is meant to suggest that while he leads with the chariot and his steeds (power), he’s also guided by the watery flow of human existence (emotions). So, while Cancer is a sensitive water sign, it is also a cardinal sign and naturally has a Chariot-like “take charge” attitude when it comes to getting things done.
Another duality we may notice is symbolic in the sphinxes in front: one black and one white, facing opposite directions. In this yin-and-yang-like presentation, we can gather that there are two sides to this sweet warrior card: the fierce strength to protect loved ones and the soft heart of gold behind it.
Cancer is a cardinal water sign and welcomes in the summer season. The first day of Cancer season is June 21, coinciding with the Summer Solstice. Summer is a great time for Cancer, as the daylight hours get longer, and we get more time to see our loved ones during vacations and long holiday weekends.
Our emotions intensify, as well, which can be a big transition as we say goodbye to relaxed, easygoing, and more emotionally aloof Gemini season. This is a time to trade in logic for passion. During Cancer season, it’s time to start feeling our emotions and to start making decisions based on where your heart leads you. (Ever heard of a Cancer’s strong sense of intuition?)
Cancer season also reminds us to reconnect with family and celebrate the milestones we’ve accomplished in the first half of the year. Cancers throw great parties, and it’s no coincidence that they rule the summer months, when most weddings take place. Cancers are deeply committed and loyal, making them ideal spouse or committed partners. Summer is the perfect time to give into a Cancer’s loving ways!