You too attract more bees with honey!
Let´s be honest Scorpio, if you´re in a committed relationship, you might be the one “wearing the pants in the relationship.” You like having control of your surroundings, and you probably have picked a mate who either enjoys being under your thumb, or doesn’t really care at all. When you feel like you´re losing some of this control, you might turn to your dark bag of tricks and bluntly manipulate your mate into doing whatever it is that you want.
But, is this the relationship you really want to have? When it comes to love, real love, your softer side will always win you over. In that cutely magnetic way of yours, show your sweetie the way you feel. As a Scorpio, you are way more powerful—and attractive—when you´re out of the shadows.
Scorpio´s seductive strategy…
As a Scorpio, you are very passionate in every one of your relationships. But before you let yourself feel that profound and decide to jump into a relationship, you must test the waters.
You might also be running hot and cold toward your love interest and probably making them go through some serious tests, mainly because you must protect yourself and figure out if the other person is worth your time.
Well, sorry to break it to you Scorpio, but these are all called “mind games”, and your sign has created a reputation for playing them a lot in the game of love. But don´t they say that in love and war everything goes?
With you, foreplay starts way before even getting to the bedroom, and all this so called “mind manipulation” is what makes you so irresistible. So how is it that you´re going to stop? You won´t, not until you meet someone strong enough to handle your intensity and smart enough to match your wits!
Opening the door to Scorpio´s deepest sexuality…
As the sign that rules reproductive organs, you exude pure sensuality that people can smell a mile away. But often this sensuality can be confused for just sex.
The truth is, Scorpio´s simmering sexuality goes beyond that. When you first meet someone, they might be so attracted to you that they just want to jump into bed with you right away. But that could be a total turn off for you, right?
With sexy Scorpio, foreplay starts way before the bedroom; it involves establishing a real connection by exchanging long and penetrating gazes, teasing each other verbally, and resolving each other´s mind mysteries.
The door to unleashing Scorpio´s awe-inspiring sexuality is their mind! What should happen next is another one of your sign´s misconceptions. Instead of going for a rough-quick approach, fully engage in a super subtle ecstasy.
Your sexuality, Scorpio, is not only a way to express yourself and release pent-up emotions, it is your pathway to uncover the secrets of human nature.
How to capture a Scorpio, the most sensual of all signs…
You must have been captivated from the moment you saw them. They might seem cool and controlled, but right beneath the surface there is a bomb ready to explode. First of all, be confident in your qualities, they usually dislike insecure people. Free yourself from routine, Scorpios crave excitement and adventure.
When they start to date you, accept their independence fully and find a nice rhythm, because once you´re in, you´re all the way in! Once you enter the serious phase of your relationship, fearlessly unleashing your sexuality and seriously committing to the relationship will ensure you your Scorpio´s heart.
Scorpio, the shaman of the zodiac…
You’re the sign of death, rebirth, and are ruled by Pluto, the god of the underworld, therefore you are often called the shaman of the zodiac. As a Scorpio, one of your main missions is to guide others into the hidden secrets of their psyche and the deep compulsions of the natural world. Your sign symbolizes the eagle that flies between heaven and earth in a struggle between spiritual opposites.
Your healing powers help you through this current arduous incarnation of self-transformation and assist others in their creative self-expression and evolutionary process. Change is inevitable but doesn’t come easy to others, at least not as easy as to you. This is the reason why some people are afraid of you Scorpio: you bring them face to face with their darkest fears in order to transform them and heal them. That, Scorpio, is the shaman within you.
How to spot a Cancer…
Do you care about sign love compatibility, Scorpio? Think back… are some of your exes Cancer? If the response is yes, keep trying them out, it might be worth it. If your response is negative, you need to get busy, Scorpio! You two are like a match made in heaven! This is how you spot a Cancer:
They are family people.
They wear their hearts on their sleeve and—like you—have volatile emotions.
He or she is an artist, or at least artsy.
They spend a lot of time at home, like to have people over, and know how to entertain them.
A nurturer by nature, they love taking care of others or things in general.
Your sex life has your back in moments of stress…
Sex is your main tool of discovery, Scorpio. But when you’re feeling anxiety or stress, having cathartic sex is the best kind of sex you can have to cure yourself. Having an orgasm while—or after—you express some of your deepest feelings can take you on a journey to a “near-death” state of mind.
Except that, far from being scared, you will be more than alive when you come back. Like a bird reaching its peak, this is how you reach your highest level of intimacy, release negative emotions, and come out of our head in order to look at your current situation with a fresh and renewed point of view. It’s worth a try!
This will wake you up!
As one of the most intense signs, you need a constant energy release to feel at your best. But you get bored easily from that repetitive gym routine. Trying this 4-day program will make your fitness week fly by and make it more fun.
Monday – Burn the weekend calories by running to the park and do 30 minutes of ab work. Don’t forget to run back!
Tuesday – Two for the price (and time) of one, yogilates!
Thursday – It´s almost happy hour time! Dance fusion will put you in the right mood for the week´s end.
Saturday – Wrap up your week with a bike ride, either to run errands, or simply to enjoy the beautiful day.
Is your need for intimacy pressuring you to have sex?
One of Scorpio´s main needs is intimacy, the real kind of connection that allows you to really get to know someone. Very often, this gets confused for just sex and conversation, and it´s very possible that this hunger for closeness might drive you to experience hollow and forgettable encounters.
The truth is, as hard as it is for you to know it, most people don´t know, haven´t experienced, or are afraid of being this exposed. So how are you going to figure out if you should get involved or not? Trust your instincts, Scorpio! They are your best tool! If you get the feeling someone is incapable of this wholesome togetherness, might not be a red flag for others, but it is for you!
Fashion sense and shrewdness define a Scorpio…
Very few seem to notice that Scorpios not only dress to seduce, but actually have a refined sense of style. Combined with their business sharpness, Scorpios can make their way to the very top of the fashion industry. An impressive amount of Scorpios have made their way into this tough industry as editors, designers, and photographers.
In astrology master Susan Miller´s words, “Scorpios really understand what it takes to bring a creative idea to market, they have an affinity for good tailoring, refinement, elegance, and they would never show a beautiful item that cannot be bought.” Some of the Scorpio style setters in high fashion are Anna Wintour, Calvin Klein, Emilio Pucci, and Roberto Cavalli.