The hots and colds of dating another Scorpio…
Talk about hot! That is definitely is a pro. You probably saw—and sensed—each other across a huge room, made eye contact for about ten minutes, had instant chemistry, and maybe jumped to bed right away. When you´re about to text each other, you realize you´re doing it at the same time, finish each other’s sentences, and instinctively read each other’s minds.
Sadly, right after the “honeymoon phase” is over, things start getting intense and extremely emotional. One of you (or both, yikes) is being mega jealous, possessive, and soap-opera-dramatic. Basically, if you were alone in the world, nothing could damper your fiery perfection. Well Scorpio, enjoy it while it lasts!
Your biggest challenge, avoiding the Scorpio curse…
If only the universe wasn´t full of dualities—good or bad, yin and yang, heaven and hell, black or white. But it is, and so are you Scorpio. Every one of your amazing qualities comes with a dark counterpart that is just as strong. Jealousy, envy, revenge, and violence are some of your tendencies and reactions when you´re feeling upset and hurt.
You might not like this Scorpio, but the only way to reach your full potential is by learning how to tame these feelings and actions. Like the secret texts of Hinduism affirm, “Scorpios are the most successful from the very moment they can control their weaknesses.” Sounds easier said than done, but you are your most magnetic when you´re kind, hypnotic when you´re gentle, fascinating when amiable, and charming when you´re polite to everyone.
Why everyone wants Scorpio as part of their team…
You know it´s true. Every time a certain activity requires “teaming up with someone,” some, or at least a lot, of those awkward looks go to you. Yes, they want you on their team.
Can you blame them for it? Well of course not, everyone knows having you on their side means gold status. In any school or work related competition, they know you won´t let them down. They’ve seen you nailing every project by fiercely getting to the heart of the matter. In any board or strategic game, your moves are slow and quiet, but determined.
Being the most resourceful sign helps you when planning an offensive strategy in which you secretly figure out your contender´s tactics. Lastly, if all of the sudden your team becomes the pray, you´re fast, sneaky, and you will sting. They better watch out, if you´re not on their team!
Scorpio isn´t only the sexiest sign…
Being a Scorpio makes you one of the most fun people in your groups of friends. You´re not only adventurous and outgoing, you also have a unique outlook on life that very few others have. Your resourcefulness helps you figure out any puzzle, and your dark sense of humor turns any negative or boring situation into a laughable one.
It´s true, you can be very intense. But hey, one thing is for sure—people are never bored around you because everything you do, you do with complete passion and full expression. You’re proud of being intriguing, interesting, and never monotonous, all that makes you the most fascinating sign in the entire zodiac.
This is who you’ve been looking for…
As the sign of sexuality, sex is not only your religion, but also the way you explore life, people, and feelings. Of course, not everyone has what it takes to please you, so find out which signs they are before you get too involved!
When it comes to sex, fellow water signs—Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces—will make you tick because you are all dominated by sensuality. Other signs that might bring you pure ecstasy are Gemini, Virgo, and Capricorn. On a dark note, if that hottie you’ve been fantasizing about is Aries, Leo, or Aquarius, you´re probably better off staying away!
The most common mistake on Scorpio´s dieting habits…
You have a muscular complexion and live a very active life, so your food regime must supply you with the right nutrients in order to keep you energized and going strong. Do you go on diets? If you do, you must know that zero carb diets are not the right ones for you.
Carbohydrates are a source of sugar that your body needs to be able to produce energy. Most importantly, studies show that zero carb diets can make people lose control, and you do not want that. You are the epitome of controlled, Scorpio.
For you, being the sign of regeneration means you can´t leave out calcium sulphate, the type of mineral your tissue needs to regenerate what your body can´t produce by itself.
Without calcium sulphate, your become prone to colds, sinus infections, skin eruptions, and infertility—among others. The good news is that you can easily get used to eating at least one of these delicious foods once a day: asparagus, kale, figs, onions, coconut, watercress, radishes, black berries, tomatoes, cauliflower, and parsnips.
Mixed signals might be keeping you from getting serious…
One of your needs as a Scorpio is to be in a nurturing, but passionate and committed, relationship. If you have been struggling to even pass stage one in your relationships, giving your prospect the wrong idea might be your problem. You’re a sign that finds it difficult to open up at first, and if you´ve been hurt in previous relationships, you might be making very difficult for someone to form a genuine bond—even though that´s actually what you really and truly want. If someone feels right, showing your vulnerable side might be scary, but it definitely can be very rewarding.
Staying true to your nature in a long-term relationship…
Scorpios are thought to be made to be in a relationship, not only because they get lonely easily and have sexual needs, but because they are tremendously loyal and generally function better in the company of a partner. But when you take intimacy so seriously and become one with your loved one, it´s hard to stay true to your nature.
You can still be you and maintain a great love affair just the way you like it. Having your own time alone, your own intellectual interests, your own friends, your own creative time, and having the freedom to do whatever you want are some of the most important aspects of staying true to your nature. One thing is for sure Scorpio, if you have found the one who lets you be this way, you have found the one!
Pay attention to this…
So, you were going out with a Scorpio and things didn’t work out? Everything will be okay as long as you do things right. Getting closure is an important matter for them but you have to think it through, otherwise they might hate you forever, or even look for revenge if you really end up breaking their heart.
Chances are they saw it coming, so one of the most important things is to be completely honest (this includes not cheating on them). These folks are super intuitive and will spot a lie a mile away. Show emotion, promise loyalty as friends if you feel like you can, don´t make them look bad publicly, and have one last—good and steamy—sex session.
Scorpio’s withdrawal may be their downfall…
You met someone. You two are super compatible, the sex is amazing, and you like everything about them. But just when you were starting to think you could fully engage with this person—boom—something happens.
You are too proud to admit when something bothers you because it makes you feel weak, controlled, and wounded. And all of the sudden, in the blink of an eye, you turn ice cold. You withdraw not only from your new love interest, but from your own feelings. Your Scorpion survival instincts turn on to protect you.
In the meantime, they are asking themselves, “what happened?” Rise above this situation. Clearing the air and showing how strongly you really feel is not a sign of weakness. Learn a positive way to verbalize your emotions and know that nobody can hurt you when you are who you truly are!